Sometimes we can be so involved in the day to day routine that our lives revolve around, that we don’t think about, let alone have time to stop and consider how we actually shape our lives.
We do sometimes choose our new beginnings. We choose to change direction for example by changing our job, going into business, getting married, or choosing to have a baby. These are things that we plan for and expect to happen. But what about the things we don’t choose? Dismissal from work, redundancy, divorce or life-threatening illness. When these things happen it’s a bit like being hit by a cricket bat! Life stops and we are forced into taking stock.
So, do we crawl into a corner until we feel better, or do we look at this opportunity that’s been handed to us and make decisions about what we want from life?
I’ve always been a glass half full kinda gal. Maybe a bit too trusting that things will work out, but you know what, they usually do somehow.
I recently had a fight with breast cancer and so far I’m winning. When it was diagnosed my first question was “will I die from it?” “Unlikely,” says the consultant. Ok, “will I need a full mastectomy” “unlikely,” says the consultant. Ok, so we need now to fix it, right? Yes it’s painful, yes I’ve cried a handful of times but, it’s also shown me that I’m a survivor. I don’t give in! My family could have told you that but they call it being stubborn!!
So why am I telling you this? Well, I saw the recovery from cancer process as a new beginning, a chance to make things different. My Son who also happens to be my business partner really stepped up to the mark. His mum was ill and we had two businesses that needed running. So we sat down together assessed the situation and off we went. We redistributed my workload, put aside some of the things that Michael and the team couldn’t do and together we got on with it. Sounds sensible yes? But without realising it at the time we actually altered the course of the businesses making them stronger and more effective. They both took a dip but that was more to do with the economic climate than the fact that I was ill. I could take time out when I felt ill and when the treatment exhausted me and I did. But I could also work when I felt well enough and so I did.
The point I’m trying to make is that we shouldn’t wait until something awful happens to make us change the course of our lives or our businesses, we should actively explore opportunities to take stock of our lives, take a birds-eye view of our businesses and ensure that they are what we want them to be. If they’re not, then change them.
Creating a new beginning can be life-changing, invigorating and exciting. I am truly thankful for the events in my life and the new beginnings I’ve experienced. They make me what I am, a successful businesswoman, daughter mother and grandma, who loves what she does and loves life.
I will continue to create my new beginnings. When will you start yours?